Growing up

We have to stop
  when we are mad, or desolate
Ask the question
  why, what does this relate to
Follow the tender
  threads back, childhood
Adulthood, where is
  this coming from, make
The connection whole
  start the healing realization
What role are we
  standing in, do we want to
Change, change the
  situation, learn from it
Grow again and
  again, watered in tears
In consultation of
  the root which needs water